My ex-girlfriend ... help..?

ok, well i think she still may have feelings for u and she definately is confused, but i think shes is trying to let go b/c of something she wants or because of something u did. I suggest u ask her to reconsider what she has done, and if she is unsure jus tell her that u'll be there for her as a friend nothing more, dont let her make u a back up because i think that is what she is doin, and maby u should let her know that, for now jus give her some space w/e is meant to be will be